What do I do if my sister is always getting modeling jobs and I can’t get anything?

Question by Farrah B: What do I do when my sister is constantly getting modeling jobs plus I can’t receive anything?
My sister gets all these modeling jobs with Proscout, Barbizone, Mac shops, plus Rampage plus she is 14 plus i’m 12. She is constantly phoning me fat plus claims my walk looks retarded. I understand how it feels to cry my self to rest. It hurts to be inside this postion plus i don’t have anybody to turn to. What do i do?????????

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Answer by proudamerican93
tell her the truth: she’s a b*tch.

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30 thoughts on “What do I do if my sister is always getting modeling jobs and I can’t get anything?

  1. accept the fact you are not a model. don’t try so hard to live up to your sister. find something you’re good at and rub it in her face.

  2. She is just putting you down to make her feel better about herself. Ignore her and be confident in yourself.

    Also, Talk to your mom or dad or both about it…. if they don’t know she is teasing you like that they can’t do anything to stop it.

  3. boo hoo. your going to end up being one of those girls that is totally retarded by the time your 25 because you wont do anything to improve your personality. you will only rely on your looks. Aim higher kid, don’t become a bimbo.

  4. well your sister is sssssssssssssooooooooooooooooo mean
    ask her how she does it
    and if she doesn’t help tell her she’s obese and it looks like she trips over her own feet

  5. You just don’t look the part, obviously. Just go do something else you like and stop stressing. If you don’t have the look they want, it’s useless persevering. Try again in a few years ,say when you’re 15 when you’ll look quite different.
    Your sister is being a normal sibling bitch and trying to wind you up. Ignore her.

  6. Dont let it bother you, thats probably the reason she does it! Also, she may feel insecure or think that your better than her and may put you down so she feels better about herself. Dont say things back to her because that only makes you seem just as bad. When she says those things just tell her shes being rude and that it makes you mad.

    Oh, and if its gets SO bad you cant handle it. Just tell your parents. I’m sure they would be mad that she was doing that to you and then she would stop.

    Hope i helped! (i have siblings, btw)

  7. being a model is not so great. it will not last and anyway, maybe you are not interested in that. you are the one with the brains and i am sure you are pretty . don’t let her get to you. just laugh at her and tell her she is to thin and her walk really looks weird. models do walk funny don’t they. stop crying and start taking up for yourself.

  8. Aww thats really mean of her :(
    If you want to be a model, then I’d just practice practice pracitice and maybe sign up for a class or two, it couldn’t hurt ^-^
    But if you find it isn’t really your forte, then just find a new, fun hobby and be better at her at it!

  9. Wow. You’re sister isn’t very nice is she. Dont listen to her. She’s probably just scared you’ll do better than her, and she’s slightly mad you’re doing the same thing… It’s a big sister thing. Number one, she’s older. The best thing you can do is prove her wrong. Take good care of yourself, be health, exercise, dont try to lose weight. Just be clean and keep yourself looking nice. You dont need to change anything. You’ll find people who like your look how it is. Be polite and confident, work hard, and your turn will come around soon. Also being a model is like a job. At your age you dont need to have a job. Make sure you have really good proffesionaly quality photos in your portfolio. Work on your portfolio. Take any job you can get as long as it is appropriate. Do reasearch on how to be a good model. Just work hard. Show her you are just as good. And dont get cocky. Do the opposite of what she is doing. If she is having a bad day and not getting work, you support her. Because she is your sister. She needs your love and support no matter how she treats you. I think she’s getting a bit vein. Just because you get modeling jobs doesn’t mean you a the greatest thing out there, even though you are pretty there are much more things that make a beautiful person. So keep that in mind. And good luck. Just make sure you also like what you are doing. Maybe modeling isn’t for you. Not because you aren’t pretty enough. But because there are plenty of other things to do in the world that are much more great than modeling…

    The best wishes to you,

    Kayla

  10. Dear Farrah, That does hurt. Pain can be your friend if you act on it. It you want to loose weight just start by eating a good breakfast, medium lunch and little to no supper and no eating between meals.. 90% of all overweight people eat no breakfast. Then start an exercise program with your friend. Soon you will feel better all day, you will loose weight and your sis will have nothing to insult you with.

  11. Look you are a very lovely girl, and you can get jog in modeling just find an agent to find you jobs in modeling i am sure that he will find you jobs

  12. Well maybe modleling just isnt your kind of thing. maybe you are ment to be an actress, a fashion desiner, or any thing else. I know what your going threw my sister is better at lots of stuf that I want to do better at. But I have to to look on the bright side and think ok al the things I can do that she can’t. And I feel lots better. So don’t try to me a modle just listen to your heart. Hey your only 12 you have plenty of time to reach your dream.

  13. Wow, your sister is being mean. It sounds like the modeling jobs might have made her a little arrogant.

    Tell her she is hurting your feelings and to stop. Ask her why she just can’t enjoy modeling without making you feel bad for not being a model.

    I did modeling when I was at highschool and quit when I started college. It was nice to have the attention, earn some money and feel pretty, but its also very shallow, unsatisfying, competitive, boring and full of unpleasant people.

    Try not to feel jealous of your sister, even though her modeling jobs might seem very glamorous. You have your own talents and uniqueness and beauty, and the rest of your life to develop them.

  14. stop trying to live up to your sister and you are only 12 you have many years ahead of you to be a model and dont let your sister talk you down be confident about yourself, maybe modeling isnt your thing maybe you are meant to do something more meaningful than modeling. just keep working at it,

  15. Find something else to do that you enjoy and that you are good at. Just because modeling works for you sister doesn’t mean that it is right for you. Your sister is probably discouraging you because her success at modeling is something that makes her feel unique, like an individual. I know as a younger sibling, it is common to want to fill the shoes of an older sibling. But to an older sibling it feels like mere sibling competition. You don’t have to be like your sister to feel important.

    What are things that you like to do? Draw, dance, write? It will take some self-exploration, but once you find that one thing that you are good at, that makes you unique, apart from what your sister can do, you will start to feel better about yourself.

  16. She’s just a b***h. tell her how you rly feel. or, tlak to someone! Mom, dad..any family member! Kick her in the @$ $ ! xDD

  17. well find something else that your good at. Or if she ever calls you fat then just say, Hey, I may be fat, but you’ll always be ugly, and I can still diet. And Also If she ever calls you ugly or so tell her: Yeah we could be twins! OR Shouldn’t you have a license for being that ugly?

    Here Are Some Other Comebacks:

    Sure, I’ve seen people like you before – but I had to pay an admission…

    Hi there, I’m a human being! What are you?

    I’ve seen more life in a down and out’s vest.

    You’re red shirt goes well with your eyes…

    Save your breath…You’ll need it to blow up your date.

    Shouldn’t you have a license for being that ugly?

    Calling you an idiot would be an insult to all the stupid people.

    Folk clap when they see you…but they clap their hands over their eyes.

    You’re about as much use as a Betamax videorecorder

    All day I thought of you….I was at the zoo.

    I’d love to ask how old you are, but unfortunately I know you can’t count that high.

    You should learn from your parents mistakes – try using some birth control.

    He does the work of three men: Curly, Larry and Moe

    Next time you shave, try standing an inch or two closer to the blade.

    If I was as ugly as you were, I wouldn’t say Hi to folk, I’d say BOO!

    You’ve got the perfect weapon against muggers – yer face.

    You got a face only a mother could love…unfortunately she too hates it!

    I heard that you went to the haunted house and they offered you a job.

    Listen, are you always this stupid or are you just making a special effort today?

    Sure, I’d love to help you out…now, which way did you come in?

    Anybody who told you to be yourself simply couldn’t have given you worse advice…

    I heard you were so cool that you began teaching remedial classes at Cucumber college.

    Well, they do say opposites attact…so I sincerely hope you meet somebody who is attractive, honest, intelligent, and cultured.

    I heard that you changed your mind. So, what did you do with the diaper?

    Why don’t you slip into something more comfortable…like a coma.

    You started at the bottom…and it’s been downhill ever since!

    I heard that you were a Ladykiller. They take one look at you and die of shock.

    Is your name Maple Syrup? – Well, it damn well should be, you sap!

    I know what sign you were born under…’RED LIGHT DISTRICT’

    My brother calls me ugly and fat but i always tell him those comebacks.
    Hope I helped

  18. YOur sister sounds too immature to be doing the “work” that she is doing. If she is beautiful, she had better develop other parts of herself, because although she may not realise it now, there is no skill in beauty, it’s just bones, and beauty, all of it, fades and then she won’t be able to deal with it. She will look at others in youth and feel hateful and jealous. Hell, she’s already hateful. Try not to let the things she says worry you, you are not the one full of hatred. Find your place in the world and own it. Life’s an adventure. Beauty is the last thing worth worrying about.

  19. Dont let her have that power over you. Love you’reself and others will follow. never let others dictate how you feel about youreself, then you will feel better about the situation. it’s hard, but you can make others respect you no matter what they think. good luck!

  20. I agree with the girl that said find something better else to do, something your so good at that will kick A S S of this whole modelling S H I T.( sorry of the use of my bad language).
    looks aren’t evertyhing this might sound corny but beauty is only skin deep, your beautiful just the way you are sweetie.
    modelling is so overrated anyway, people think it’s so great but really i actaully see it as boring!! It’s just about a bunch of stuck up (like your sister) walking skeletons that are plastered with make-up, it’s not that great woudn’t you wanna do something more ADVENTUROUS, EXPLORING.
    rock-climbiing, you get what i mean, painting…
    And as for her saying your walk is retarted you should secretly record her little precious cat walk on video and then we’ll see who’s walk is retarded…

  21. Hide all her makeup and hair products, and just sit back and relax while she freaks!

    Lol! ine day she will turn old and then what would she do then????

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